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Love Checklist

You are looking for a new love relationship, perhaps for a partner to go with you on your life’s journey? Our Lovebumble checklist may be of use to you if you would like to find out any of the following:

  • Am I ready for my trip?

  • Which of my attitudes and viewpoints will help and empower me on my journey into a new relationship?

  • Which attitudes and viewpoints do I need to strengthen or revive?

The checklist is not a test: all answers are correct. Pause for a moment and have a quick look at what you expect from a new love relationship as well as at what you bring into it.

The thematic areas listed in the checklist are meant to illustrate attitudes and viewpoints that are important for your new love relationship.

Lovebumble’s Philosophy for Traveling:

A love relationship is like a journey! To start a new relationship-journey means to venture into unknown possibilities and experiences. The good news: all you need to do is to start – and you will inevitably end up at a different place from where you began your trip. Some people decide to leave quite on impulse: “I want to leave this relationship behind. I never want to go through anything like this again.” Others start their trip with tears in their eyes: “it was so wonderful – but now it is over!” No matter whether you are just trying to find a new relationship to fill your spare time, a new boyfriend or girlfriend, a love affair, or a partner to accompany you on your life’s journey, you will be carrying your strengths and your attitudes towards life with you on your trip. How light or heavy this luggage will feel is entirely up to you.

If you would like us to assist you in preparing your individual trip, please consult our Coaching Inquiry.



Your Personal Lovebumble Travel Checklist:


 
Empowering Viewpoints and Attitudes for Your Trip:
I’ve got this
I don’t need this right now – but
maybe later
I lack this and/or
want to strengthen it
ID
  • My ID reminds me of who I am

A strong sense of my Self: I am ready to allow someone else to find me. I know who I am and have a clear idea of what I would like to share with my future partner in a love relationship.
Map
  • The map will show me the way

A vision to be followed: I have a clear mental picture of what is the right way of life for me. I trust my past experiences: they will help me find the paths I need to walk in the present.
Tickets
  • A ticket is like a resolution I am committed to

The ability to make the right decisions: I realize that the value of a decision depends on the courage it requires. Once I have made a decision I stick to it, unless I have compelling reasons to change it or unless my instincts tell me to change it.
Fellow Travelers
  • Experienced travelers will share the experiences of their discoveries with others and me

Willingness to communicate: whenever I find myself traveling in difficult, unknown territory, I can ask my colleagues, friends, other experienced travelers or a coach with some expertise for guidance. I am not alone in my explorations: I realize that most of the things that happen to me in my life are experiences other people have had as well.
Luggage
  • The three main pieces of luggage I take on my life’s journey include work, love, and place of living

Luggage that is suitable for the trip: light luggage makes traveling easy and effortless. I know which of my obligations, attitudes and ways of behavior I have to let got in order to start my new love-journey unburdened and free.
Carry-on Luggage
  • The five senses, the conscious and the subconscious mind accompany me wherever I go

Empowering and optimistic attitudes towards life: I create my life according to my own wishes and ideas. I use my body, my five senses and my intellect to let my subconscious know what I need. I nourish my subconscious with practical, constructive, positive thoughts and with stimulating activities.
Travel Journal
  • Documentation of experiences, space for general reflections, considerations of potential future changes
It is good to look back in order to walk forward towards my goal: I am aware of my wishes, hopes, and expectations.
 
Address Book         
  • List of useful contacts

My relationship to people who might support me in my search (for a partner): I am looking for people who are supportive, but avoid those who are pessimistic, those who find fault with everything I do as well as those who think they know everything better. I have certain role models and mental images of what constitutes a good relationship.
Traveler Cheques
  • Give and take

A balance of giving and receiving is crucial: sometimes, I have to give before I can receive. I am perfectly aware of which of these two sides is easier for me.
Spirit of Adventure
  • Desire, longing, courage, passion

A strong will and a readiness to start this trip right now: dreams come true as soon as my desire transforms into action. There are no limits to what I can do unless I have to or want to acknowledge these limits.

We would like to congratulate you for completing this checklist!

Perhaps you are now wondering:

  • Am I really ready for this trip?

  • What I have is all very nice, but what about all the things I lack?

  • My expectations and hopes feel very heavy. Is there anything I can leave behind? And how can I charge my attitudes and mental images with positive energy?

  • Is a day tour – or maybe even a life’s journey – together with another person the right goal [or: destination] for me? If so, what degree of emotional intensity is good for me?

The travel checklist is meant to give you some initial guidelines and to help you get a better idea of what is important to you. It can also assist you in your search – and maybe even provide some useful common basis for communicating with your new fellow traveler during the phase of first contact. Mutual attraction may evolve from all this – even if you haven’t yet managed to manifest all your dreams about change and about a new beginning in reality. Are you looking forward to what you will encounter on your trip? We hope you will enjoy your journey step by step!

The best way of clarifying unanswered questions is to talk to someone you trust about your personal travel checklist. If you don’t have anybody to talk to, just continue this “dialogue” that you have now started with yourself. Another option is to find a trained coach by consulting our Coaching Inquiry. A knowledgeable coach can help you reach your goals faster and more effortlessly and efficiently.

To those of you who are ready for this journey: good luck – and have an exciting trip!



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