Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

Of Two Who Have Found Each Other At Least Twice.

In 1978, we – that is, Barbara and Martin – have fallen in love with each other. At that time, we were 17 and 18 years old. After seven years, we were forced to painfully realize that our love was immature: our world consisted exclusively of Barbara and Martin.

We then went separate and independent paths but never lost sight of each other. Eight years later, in 1993, we met again and fell in love for the second time – or, maybe, for the first time for real, that is, as independent human beings. Our children are now 11 and 13 years old. We are a lively family, and like many other families, we fight with each other, make up again, and love each other dearly. This is, what makes us happy.

Today we know: love cannot constantly give us pleasure. Instead, love is the reward for the existence of many difficult and anxious moments. Love is what allows two human beings to live with each other.

We believe that a real love relationship can only develop if one is willing to perceive both oneself and one’s partner again and again in an honest but loving – as well as forever new – way. This is the reason why Lovebumble does not suggest one hundred potential partners at the same time but three at the most.

Since we are also pretty sure that a relationship can only last if both partners understand and appreciate each other, we emphasize the principles of harmony and resonance. We therefore ask all our members to specify those personal qualities in their profile that characterize them best – as well as those that they do not wish their partners to possess.

In other words, the rationale behind Lovebumble is based on the belief that treating one’s partner with attentive consideration is the key to a fulfilled love relationship. Lovebumble is our attempt to help people achieve these fulfilled love relationships. May all human beings find each other again and again anew in love!

Barbara and Martin Pamment

PS: Our longtime professional experience in the fields of Psychology and Social Education has, of course, been crucial in giving Lovebumble its final shape. Key topics that we frequently encounter in our professional reality include: vital attentiveness, leadership, communication and facilitation, conflict and change management, team and performance.